karonadrummond

Because We Love Children

What Sibling Rivalry?

on September 27, 2012

“I’ll get it.”

“No, you answered the phone last time. It’s my turn!”

“The dog needs to go out.”

“I’m busy. You let her out.”

“No, you!”

(together) “MOM…..!!”

Sound familiar? It was an every day situation at our house. It was about to drive me crazy!

Then a very nice lady at church, named Janice, gave me a parenting tool that changed my life. She told me that I could share it with you.It’s called “My Day/Your Day”. Here’s how it works:

Let’s say you have 2 kids. Kid 1 gets the odd numbered days of the month. Kid 2 gets the even numbered days. If you have more than 2 kids, divide up the month as evenly as possible so that everyone knows whose day it is. Mark it on the calendar if that helps.

The benefits to each child when it is his’her day: Kid of the Day gets to answer the door, answer the phone, first choice of which part of the bathroom to clean, gets to pick the bedtime story, etc. Make it fit your life.

The responsibilities of Kid of the Day: Let the dog out, take out the trash and recycling, relay the phone messages or write them down, etc. Again, adjust it to your household.

This has freed up quite a bit of brain space for me. I hope it does for you as well.

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